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1、-范文最新推荐- Should we borrow money from ou its a sunny day you come to do shopping with your good friend in company, and see a lovely dress that you feel like buying. searching carefully into your purse, but no money is in it, looking carefully into your friends eyes, hesitating.money is surely needed
2、at present, but should you borrow it from your friend? my advice is that you should never do this unless you are forced to do so, since it can do great harm to your friendship. the reasons i will show you below can help you to know why. firstly, how can you make sure that your friends have enough mo
3、ney to lend to you? they may have to change their shopping plans due to your unreasonable request. whats more if they dont have enough money at the moment to lend to you, they may feel embarrassed to admit it. your friendship will be damaged little by little following this kind of game. secondly, yo
4、u can hardly get money from your friend without leaving them the feeling that they have to do so in order not to disappoint you. and the element money is added into a matter, that wont be a pure thing. it is the same with friendship. if you keep borrowing money from your friend again and again, they
5、 will feel that being your friend only means lending money to you, how can this kind of friendship last for a long time? what is more important is that can you make sure that you can pay back the money you have borrowed in time? if its only a small sum of money, maybe its ok even if you forget to pa
6、y it back, but what if its a large amount of money that your friends are in need? should he ask a deadline for repayment or remind you to pay it back time and again? a friend may not do this due to the friendship and trust between you, but how long can his or her trust last if you carry on doing thi
7、s? yes, theres no doubt that a friend should give you a hand when you are in trouble, but everything should have a limit. please remember that a friend is not a machine from which you can borrow money. so next time when you do want to buy something but have got no money at hand, just go to the bank
8、to draw some or come to buy it with your money next time. after all, friendship is more important that goods! life is full of colors and different colors reflect different attitudes towards life. what is your favourite color? are you in favour of those warm colours, such as yellow, orange, or red? i
9、f you do, you are likely to be an optimist, a leader, and an active person who enjoys life, work and excitement. do you prefer those cold colors such as grey and blue? then you may tend to be a pessimistic, quiet, and shy person, you would rather follow than lead. is this true? maybe. at least, this
10、 is what psychologists have told us, and they should know, since they have been seriously studying the meaning of color preference, as well as the effect that colors have on human beings¡¯ lives. they tell us that we do choose our favourite colors as we grew up, and we were born with our
11、love for special colors. if you happen to love a special color, you were made to do this the moment you opened your eyes, or at least the moment you could recognize different colors.there is no doubt that colors do have an impact on our moods. a yellow room can make most people feel cheerful and rel
12、axed while a dark green one makes you feel cold and afraid. and a red dress brings warmth and pleasure to the saddest winter day. of course, the color black will probably make you feel depressed. it is reported that a black bridge over the thames river used to be the scene of more suicides than any
13、other bridge in the area until one day it was repainted green, the number of suicide attempts immediately fell sharply; perhaps it would have fallen even more if the bridge had been done in pink or baby blue.light bright colors make people not only happier but more active in their work. it is an est
14、ablished fact that students work better, harder and will make fewer mistakes when their notebooks and study tools are of these colors rather than black or grey.so now do you know what kind of person you are belonging to? just find your life color, and enjoy your life! once president roosevelt¡
15、¯s house was broken into and lots of things were stolen. hearing this, one of roosevelt¡¯s friends wrote to him and advised him not to take it to his heart so much. president roosevelt wrote back immediately, saying:¡°dear friend, thank you for your letter to comfort me, i
16、am all right now. i think i should thank god. this is because of the following three reasons: firstly, the thief only stole things from me but did not hurt me at all; secondly, the thief has stolen some of my things instead of all my things; thirdly, most luckily for me, it was the man rather than m
17、e who became a thief.¡±it is certainly unlucky for anyone to be stolen from. however, president roosevelt had three reasons to be grateful. this story tells us we should learn to be grateful in our life. there is a sentence from mahatma gandhi:¡°live as you were to die tomorro
18、w, learn as you were to live forever. ¡± great people are always showing their love to the world, just as gandhi, mother teresa, norman bethune and so on. how about us?you can not do everything, but still you can do something. so, be grateful to your life, all the people and things in y
19、our life.be grateful to the nature, for the fresh air you breathe, the clean water you drink, the beautiful flower you smell.be grateful to your parents, for they gave birth to you and taught you right from wrong.be grateful to your teachers, for they let you understand ¡°what¡&plusm
20、n;,¡°how¡±and¡°why¡± with great patience.be grateful to your friends, for you have known each other since you were 9 or 10 and faced the difficulties together for so many years.be grateful to your lover, for he/she gave you love and helped you find the s
21、un every time you were down.mother teresa once said:¡°people really need help, but may attack you if you help them. help people anyway; give the world the best you have and you may get kicked in the teeth. give the world the best you have anyway.¡± at last i want to say: being grateful can bring us a better and more beautiful life. why don¡¯t we have a try?let,s get it started! 5 / 6