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1、第社会心理学九节爱情婚姻与家庭（Social psychology, nine, love, marriage and family）The second chapter is social psychology. 109Social contagion is a process of transmitting information and emotion over a wide range, i.e., through language, expression, action, andHe causes all the same emotions and behavior:1., two-
2、way sexy infected with infected people can be converted to each other, that is, you infected me, I infected you.2., the outbreak of circulating infection in larger groups, repeated oscillation, repeated cycle, triggering a strong impulse temperamentThe explosion leads to irrational behavior.3., the
3、rapid acceptance of infection in the atmosphere, the infection of the information and emotional stimuli for the rapid response to infectionBy.(two) classification of infection1., the infection between individualsType.Occurs among individuals or between members of a small group. Is the most common fo
4、rm of social infection2., the infection of mass media refers to mass media such as television, film, radio, newspapers and periodicals, literary and artistic works and InternetEffects on individual emotions. With the development and progress of society, spiritual life and cultural life are becoming
5、more and more abundant, and the feeling of mass media is becoming more and more importantDyeing has become more and more prominent and has great influence and far-reaching consequences.3. large open groups of infections occur in the same physical space, but their members are unlikely to be accessibl
6、e to allInfection in large populations. The important feature is a cycle of reaction, the individual emotions can cause others to produce the same emotion, andOther emotions, in turn, exacerbate the old mood. This infection, emotional agitation, easy to break out, resulting in irrational lineHappen
7、for. For example, fan riots, cult fanaticism, and panic in war and disaster situations are among such societiesThe result of infection.Imitation, suggestion and social infection are the three forms of social influence, which belong to the social psychological phenomenon. Its nature depends onThe eff
8、ect and social evaluation of these phenomena. The imitation, suggestion, and social contagion that benefits others, the public, and society are integralExtreme social significance; on the contrary, it has negative significance; between the two, there are also neutral meanings of imitation, suggestio
9、n and social infection,They are neither useful nor harmful.The concept of loveThe ninth section, love, marriage and familyUnit 1 loveLove is the most intense form of interpersonal attraction. It refers to the fact that individuals mature to a certain extent and produce waves to the opposite sexDiffu
10、se color of advanced emotions, is characterized by:(a) is produced in the love between men and women, heterosexual love refers to the narrow sense of the homosexuality excluded.(two) love comes from the development of individual psychology to relative maturity, and young children do not have this ki
11、nd of love.(three) love is a high emotion, not a low emotion.(four) love has its physiological basis, including sexual factors, not pure spiritual love.(five) the basic inclination of love is devotion. To measure whether a person has love or not, how strong he is, or notFrom within, to help the belo
12、ved to do all that he expects.Two, the stage of love developmentNational IEll, qualification training course, counselorSocial exchange theorists regard courting as rationalist, and they choose partners who can bring more happiness to themselves;All the factors that lead to love can be attributed to
13、interests and values. Both have both material and economic factors, including societySocial and psychological factors.According to this theory, the development of love generally goes through four stages.(1) the two sides of the sample and the evaluation of each other, in a particular group, choose t
14、he objects they wish to associate with, the main considerationFactor is the income and cost of communication and offset the surplus. If the revenue and surplus exceed their expectations, into each otherFor the pursuit of the goal.(two) reciprocity at this stage, the two sides exchange the proceeds a
15、s much as possible, that is, to provide the other side of the proceeds, but also benefit from the other sideMakes every effort to reduce costs. Such as chatting together, exchanging gifts, discussing together, interested, problems, etc., but avoid entering each others privateDense domain. In exchang
16、e, reciprocity between the two parties strengthens intimacy.(three) the parties agree that the gains received from each other are greater than those obtained by the other sex, and therefore cease with othersHeterosexual exchanges, the relationship between the two sides relatively fixed, began a one
17、to one frequent exchanges.(four) the strengthening of institutionalized intimacy, the two sides feel inseparable from each other, but also worried about the other party to leave their own, hoping toInstitutionalize the relationship by contract, such as engagement, marriage formalities. The contract
18、made the relationship exclusive,Be faithful to each otherThree, the form of loveThere are six common forms of love in different situations and different needs:(a) passionate first meeting of each other immediately attracted each other, love at first sight.(two) friendship love is a mysterious feelin
19、g is not profound sentiments of friendship.(three) game type sometimes I have to avoid my lovers so they dont know each other.(four) possessive, if I suspect that my loved one is with someone else, my nerves are tense.(five) logic is best to fall in love with a person who is similar to his own backg
20、round.(six) selfless, I would rather suffer hardship than let my loved one suffer.Four, love triangleSome scholars believe that love consists of closeness (valuing each others likes, understanding and anticipation), passion (attraction and sexual attraction)() a triangle composed of three factors, n
21、amely, commitment (decision, commitment), as shown in the following figure:L + / Laoshan vend.Passion，(infatuation, passion alone)The second chapter is social psychologyclose(likes one, only intimacy)Love trianglePromise(empty love, promises alone)It can be seen that there are seven kinds of love in
22、 the three vertices and three sides of the triangle and in the triangle.According to the degree of balance of the three factors, the triangle can be a positive triangle (three factors), or it can be a non positive threeAngle (an unbalanced triangle focusing on one factor), divided by intensity, high
23、 intensity triangle of love and low intensity triangleFirst, the concept of marriageSecond unit marriageMarriage is a marriage between men and women, and it is the symbol and foundation of family establishment.The essence of marriage is its social nature, established in accordance with certain laws,
24、 ethics and customs. spouseRelationships are a particular kind of relationship and social relationship.Marriage motivation not only meets the sexual needs of both husband and wife in a socially acceptable way, but also gives birth to children and breeds offspring,And it includes economic considerati
25、ons. There are three motives for marriage: economy, reproduction, and love. Some scholars believe that.Ancient times, the economy first, multiply second, love third; medieval times, reproduction first, the economy second, love third;In modern society, love first, reproduction second, economy third.
26、Modern society, due to changes in the status of women, individualsFreedom has become the norm of social life, love has become the dominant motive of marriage, and more than once is multiplication and economy.Two, the relationship between husband and wife(I) love typeIt has two subtypes, one that com
27、bines beauty with sexuality, but lurks a risk that beauty and sexual attraction will gradually emergeDecline, if the marriage lacks other basis, or can not transition to the personality similarity based on both sides of love, then can pushSuch marriages tend to be in crisis sooner or later; two, per
28、sonality based couples, based on similarity or complementarity of personality.Because of the relative stability of personality, not as changeable as body type and sexual charm, this combination generally makes marriage smooth and luckyNational Vocational Qualification Training Course ConsultantBless
29、ing。(two) utilitarianThis type is based on the origin of love, education, property, social relations and other conditions. When both sides acceptWhen the benefits are in keeping with the cost, the marriage continues and the two sides are satisfied. The risk is that both the gains and costs are not b
30、alanced,Often discontent leads to crisis; secondly,Due to the strong sense of husband and wife relationship, it is difficult to obtain love and enjoymentWhen the relationship between the two sides is tense, one side seeking an extramarital affair leads to a breakup.(three) equal cooperation and divi
31、sion of labor;The former husband and wife share the housework equally; the latter is the division of labor in accordance with their respective characteristics, and housekeeping. These two typesThe characteristics of both sides are that they enter their roles and have corresponding expectations for e
32、ach other. They both know the value of both parties in the familyValue, have strong sense of responsibility, family life is more harmonious and stable.(four) constructiveThis is both the common goal diligently in the life and work of the couple. They have a major work, education, children and so onC
33、ommon goals, and around these close cooperation. After achieving one goal, pursue new goal again. Life is hard work,To curb family consumption; to work together to love the meaning of life and to maintain and develop marriage. They might encounter questionsThe problem is that the spiritual life is n
34、ot rich enough; when one achieves the goal, one may become contented and then lazy, so that there is a rift.(five) inert typeThis is a marriage that quickly loses enthusiasm for marriage. They cant find problems to solve, and they dont want to try new onesTry to live just the same. There is no tensi
35、on, no conflict, no pleasure, and the latter has a loose effect on marriage.(six) disappointment typeDisappointed couples try their best to set up a happy marriage when they are newly married, and they have high expectations. But soon found,In marital life, there are various dissatisfaction, the rea
36、lity is not ideal, the ideal is unrealistic, and the performance of the other party is not expectedTo disappointment.(seven) one body typeThis kind of husband and wife in the long common life, mutual consideration and cooperation, in personality, hobbies, habits, adapt to each other, meltAs one. Bot
37、h sides of each other as own part of you heart. This type of relationship is stable,Happy. Its shortcomings are relatively closed, such as one party left, the other party lonely unbearable.Unit third divorceThe psychological conflicts between husband and wife are psychological disharmony, deviation
38、or opposition, and divorce is the dissolution of marriage according to law. Psychological impulseDivorce is often the cause and prelude of divorce, and divorce is often the result of intensification of psychological conflicts.I. psychological conflicts between husband and wifeThe psychological confl
39、icts between husband and wife are mostly caused by the following factors:(I) dissatisfaction with demandMarriage is formed by the need for mutual satisfaction, and the stability of marriage depends on the degree of satisfaction required. If doubleBoth sides need satisfaction in their common life, an
40、d neither party feels sentimental alienation and psychological isolation, and their marriage is stableThe second chapter is social psychologyFixed. Conversely, certain needs are not met (Social Psychology calls dissatisfaction) and you feel unhappy,Producing bad moods, resulting in arguments and con
41、tinuing conflicts. Discontent, including:1. self-worth is not recognized by the other and self-esteem is impaired.2., one or both sexual requirements are not met.3. the legitimate emotional needs of one or both parties, such as tenderness and thoughtfulness, are not met.4., the family economic needs
42、 are not properly met, for example, for various reasons, spending too much, people do not put out;There is no guarantee of legitimate life, or one or both without financial resources.5., in leisure, hobbies and so on, the two sides need and interest difference is too big.(two) inconsistent valuesOr
43、extravagant,This inconsistency is often expressed in verbal communication. If the husband regards society as an arena, he says the relation between people and peopleAs the law of the jungle, and his wife were Catholic, that should be good to the people, the two sides in a conflict of values, willA c
44、onstant and violent quarrel.The conflict of behavior values is more substantive, and the consequences are more serious. As long as one side does notTo give up some of your values and actions, conflicts will exist.Differences and conflicts in the values of life, of happiness, of achievement, are ofte
45、n persistent. Both sides recognizeFor oneself is correct, the other party is wrong, in life encounter related problems, often both sides blame each other, action backGallop.(three) the self far awayThe ego includes self-awareness, self expectation, self orientation, etc. Marriage is not just about t
46、he law, the economy, the physiology, etc.The unity of the two is also the union of the two self. Similarly, the psychological conflict between husband and wife is separated from the two selfCaused by. The absence of self is manifested as:1. two different self basic interests, the tendency of altruis
47、m.2., because of the selfish motive of marriage, love is to satisfy ones needs, not to make contribution to each other.The 3. encounter differences, each one sticks to his own view each other.4., when the patient is in pain, do not comfort, do not help, so that marriage has led to the loss of mental health function of both sides.5., both psychological adjustment process is slow, difficult to enter the psychological harmony.(four) sexual difference between husband and wifeThe difference in sexual desire and satisfaction between husban