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1、风雨哈佛路原作者演讲（待校对） I dont know. I dont know how long can you know that there is something bigger for you, and yet you ignore that.Dont we do that? Dont we do that we tell ourselves what?I am gonna take on a big picture of my life.I really will read just my career realationship.When?Later.Yeah?we always
2、 do that.I am.I just can because I am busy right now.And we get so fast reaction.We may do promise to ourselves just “later”.I push away the schoolhood later. I push away takingsetting into my life in a biggist sense.I push that away later.And when you push that away you will put away even the most
3、important things.Look,I used to visit my mother in the hospital for 5 hours.But I used to visit her all day.I used,you know I used to be the person who visits her most.So I thought I was responsible for being with her.从咖啡馆带给他草莓奶昔.OrYou know the oldest.She likes the oldest.So we listened to the radio
4、.And we sang a song together.And I helped wash her hair while we played the radio and crums .Of my mothers hair will come out in my hands.Anybody ever loses somebody to disease.You know what I mean about this.There are good days and bad days.And then the bad days become more frequent.And that became
5、 too painful.And you believe me.It did.I say “Mom,you know what I love you.I got to go.I will hang out with my friends.I will be back later.And I treated her like “later” like out get late “later” too.I push it away so much.I never forget the last when I saw her in the Thanks Giving Day.She wont eat
6、.You know the hospital give her the celebrate meal,she wont eat it because she has a sarcomain her mouth.And that was too much.I just say what”Mom,I love you .I will be back later .”I did not come back.She passed away by a month later and we burried her the day after Chrismas.We dont have money for
7、a real funeral so they donated a fine box with a series of numbers on it and they had the wordshead and feetand a draw and arrow on her pine box.I dont know.Have you ever had a experience that has impressed you so degreely you change a person you are.You look to tell about this but sometimes words d
8、ont do it.When I lost her and I connected to this experience of thinking. You know you could have seen I am later and yet here with her pine box and there was no later.I thought this opportunity and I just realized,you know what ,there was something inner I realized and learn from.It didnt come to m
9、e first.First,I just want to cry and you believe me I did.And I missed her to this day like I talking to you,guys about now and I remember the dream last night like I keeped her here.But she also give me a gift.And the gift give me the reason I am here today with you.But I swore I have later, and I
10、pushed that out so much. Have you ever heard a saying what a man can be he must to be? See, before she passed away, I thought I have all the time in the world. But then I was back to my neighborhood, and hung out with my friends. I thought life could be the same. But when she wasnt there any more, t
11、his amazing thing happened to me transform the person I am. I have no longer have tolerance for the stagnation in my life. And I hung out with my friends who I love.But they were sitting there and there whole conversation has ten or eleven streets kid friends.We all there talked and laughed you know
12、 together.And do you know what they were doing?When I got back to bury my mother.There was a conversation about complaining.I came back I buried my mom.And I heard my friend Bobi complaining about his mom,My old friend complaining about his school.This person complained.You know they were complainin
13、g.And I sat down.And I realized the conversation has created my life.As much as I knew that I have to survive.The conversation of my life was one of complaining.Its like you have a friend,you call,and everytime you call herWhich have a bad day?You callHow are you today?Hey,I really thereYou know,may
14、be your friend.And you sound like that .You want to check with yourself.So as I sat,my friends lay and I realized they were complaining and complaining and complaining.And I sat down.And I said to myself,You know why?And I stood up looking at my friends,say,Guess what,guys,I dont know where to sleep
15、 tonight.I wanna your house maybe.Maybe outside.I dont know where get to eat.I dont have. dont have.I dont have.But you know what I do have? Two hands and two feet. I have a brain in my head and air in my lungs. And what else do I really need? Like what else you really need to begin today to lead th
16、e life you know you are might to lead. You know in your heart what it is. You know and whats more you need to change before you step into that. I stood up and I looked at them. And then next feeling which has been the biggest resource in my life sense, gratitude.You can either pick one thing in life
17、, resentment or gratitude. Get on the side, I promise you. I looked that moment, I realize that I mean havent my mother ever again. But I had these resources. I had myself and I could go forward.I knocked on every door of every school that.我不知道，我不知道你要多久才能知道，你有很重要的事情要做，而你却仍旧忽视它，我们不这样吗？我们不是这样告诉自己吗？我真的
18、对我的人生有个大计划，我真的会在工作假期休息，什么时候呢？以后吧,是吗？我们经常这么做。我是这样，我可以做，只是我现在很忙。我们如此做出反应，并且我们对自己保证“以后.”我把上学时间拖得太晚了。进入有意思的生活，我把这件事拖后的太晚了。当你这样做，你也会把，即使是最重要的事拖后。看，我曾经去医院看我妈妈，花了五个小时。与她在一起一整天。我曾经，你知道我是最经常去看她的人，所以我觉得有责任。从咖啡馆带给她草莓奶酪。或者，你知道，陈旧，她喜欢陈旧，所以我们一起收听收音机。并且，我们一起唱歌，我帮她洗头发，伴随着收音机发出低沉的声音。我妈妈的头发就会被放在我手里。任何人都见过别人生病，你知道我什么意
19、思。 人生时好时坏，并且，坏的时候变得越来越频繁。这时候真的很痛苦，相信我，我那 时真的这样。我说：妈妈，你知道吗？我爱你。我要走了，我要和我的朋友出去。我以后就会回来。我对她好像是用了一个把一切都推向太晚的“以后”。我如此延后了它，在那个让我记忆终生的感恩节，我与母亲见了最后一面。她不吃东西。你知道，护士给了她，庆祝餐【感恩节】，但是她不吃。因为在她嘴里有个骨肉癌，那时，这个已经很.我只是说，妈妈你知道吗，我爱你，我以后会回来的。我没有再回来。一个月以后，她去世了。我们在圣诞节之后埋葬了她。我们没有钱办一个真正的葬礼。所以她们捐赠给我们一个上面写着很多数字的松木盒，上面写着“头与脚”，还有一
20、幅画盒一个箭头。 我不知道.你是否曾有过一个如此沉重的心理负担。以至于改变了你这个人？你指望告诉人们有关这一切，但是有时候语言却做不到。当我失去了她，并且我联系其这次经历，你知道，因为我知道我已经晚了，这里只有她的“松木盒”，也在没有“以后”。我想到这次机会，我只是觉得，你知道，我可以从我意识到的事情里学到一些东西。我当时这样做了，对我来说，第一,第一我只是想哭。相信我，我确实哭了。那天我的痛苦就像现在一样，我对你们讲话时一样。就像昨天我做了一个梦一样，我的心像是它的守护者。但她也给了我一件礼物。这个礼物给了我，与你们一同在这的理由。因为我保证我会有“以后”，但我把它拖延的太久了。你们是否听过
21、一个谚语：人可以成为他们必须成为的人。看，在她去世以前，我以为在这个世界上，我一直会有时间。但之后我回到邻居家，和朋友一起出去，我想日子将是一样的。当她永远不在这个世界上了，这件惊人的事情改变了我。我知道我的生活不能再继续停滞不前了。我与我喜爱的朋友一起出去，她们坐在那儿，十或十一个街头少年朋友。我们喜欢在一起大吵大闹，你知道，你知道他们在做什么？在我们埋葬了我妈妈之后，他们正在抱怨。我回来了，我埋葬了我母亲，然后在这里，我的朋友鲍比正在抱怨他妈妈。我的老朋友在抱怨学校 ，这个人在抱怨.你知道他们在抱怨，我坐了下来。而且我意识到了，这个话题造就了我的人生。当我意识到我必须要存活下去，我人生中谈
22、论的话题 就是抱怨，这就像你有一个朋友，你给她打电话。每次你打电话问他们：谁今天过的不好？你打电话问他们：今天过的好吗？我还是那样。也许是你的朋友，而你听起来是那样。你想要与自己相符。所以我坐着，朋友躺着，我意识到：他们抱怨，抱怨，抱怨，我坐下对自己说：你知道吗？然后站起来看着我的朋友，我说：伙计们，你们猜怎么了。我不知道今晚应该睡哪？我想，也许住你们家，或许住外面。我不知道我该去哪吃饭。我没有.我没有.我没有.但是我拥有什么？双手双脚，脑袋里有头脑，肺里有呼吸。那么还有什么是我真正需要的？就像还有什么是你在开始新的一天时真正需要的？去把握你的生活，而你知道你可能会被生活控制。你心里知道你想要什么，在达成之前还要做出哪些改变。我站起来，看着他们，接下来我的感受、后来成为了我生活中最强大的品质：感恩。你可以选择愤恨或感恩来度过你的生活，务必选择一个立场。那一刻，我意识到我再也没有妈妈了，但我有这些品质，我有自己，我还可以继续向前走。我敲响了面试的每一扇门，每一个学校. 6青草绿